We know that to understand how to use our need to drive as tools to help us to be more self-aware is a new concept. What makes this so important is that it is a way to bring awareness to the many ways in which we can be driven by need. In this way we can learn to be more self-aware in all areas of our lives, no matter what our circumstances are.
I love this idea because it is so revolutionary. We have seen so many times in our lives that we’ve been driven by need and we have done what was necessary in order to “get ahead.” When we are able to learn to “have it all,” we can learn to do more things in greater ways. We can learn to be more self-aware in all areas of our lives.
As a person who is not particularly driven by need, I find this concept very appealing. I am not sure that having needs is a bad thing, I am not opposed to having needs or not having needs. But the idea of being more self-aware of our needs and having the ability to choose more fulfilling and satisfying ways to get them into our lives is something that is so radical that it should be a little bit scary.
I hope you are not thinking I am talking about being a slave, as I think our lives are far too awesome for that. But what I am talking about is a way of life that is more in line with what drives me. My goal is to be more self-aware of the areas in my life that drive me the most.
I was always convinced that I was the kind of person who was the most driven person in my family. I was the one who would always find the most interesting things to do, and who would be the biggest procrastinator. I was always convinced that people were attracted to the things I didn’t have a choice in. I still am. But while many other behaviors are driven by necessity, I was always convinced that I was the kind of person who could control my behavior.
I’m a guy who doesn’t have a great life. I was always convinced that people were attracted to things I didnt have a choice in. I still am. But I still have that. But I still do have the drive to be the best.
I can’t afford to screw up my drive. I really do.
In fact, there is a specific part of the equation that is driving a lot of people crazy, which is that they are trying to control their behavior. They are trying to be good people, and that is almost too much to ask right? It is hard. It is hard enough to be good at what you do. It is hard enough to not screw up.
I think a lot of this is linked to the fact that we’re so aware of what we do. We’re so aware of what we’re doing, and what we’re doing is causing us pain. Like someone who takes the time to write down every bad thing they’ve done, and then lists all the good things they have done. They’re doing this because they want to be a better person, and the things they’ve done have made them feel good about themselves.
The idea of “need” is a well-known part of psychology. And it’s a very powerful one. We’ve all had people say, “I need X” and in the end, we’ve all found ourselves in pain.